ABOUT KYE
A natural curiosity about people and how we work.
Over twenty years guiding people and a lifetime asking why humans do what they do, then the unexpected moment when those questions were turned inward. That's when the real insights began.
WHERE IT BEGAN
The question of who we are
For as long as I can remember, I've been naturally drawn to understand what shapes a person. Not just what they do, but what they believe, why they believe it, their view of the world, themselves and who are they really.
That curiosity deepened through twenty years in the finance industry, where I worked with hundreds of people. While the industry focused on numbers and strategy, I was drawn to the deeper, human side of it. The patterns driving people's decisions, the narratives below the surface, the beliefs shaping their entire experience of life.
Without realising it, I was doing this work long before I had a label for it. Helping people see the beliefs and conditioning driving their choices—beliefs about what was possible, their goals, their values, their sense of security well beyond money.
"The 'ah ha' moments when someone finally saw themselves more clearly — those gave my work far more meaning than money ever could."
Then life raised questions I couldn't avoid.
At some point, the focused shifted from understanding others to something far deeper: Who am I? Why am I here?
It wasn't just an intellectual exercise. It was a pull into therapies, practices, and inner work that brought incredible insight.
Then life brought an unexpected challenge: PTSD. Suddenly the work I'd been exploring required more.
What followed were years of deep, confronting inner work. Not the motivational or surface-level kind. The kind where you dismantle beliefs you didn't know you were carrying. Where you face parts of yourself that have been buried for decades, never knowing how they were shaping your life. Where you question everything you thought you knew about who you are.
It was some of the hardest work I've ever done and yet the most liberating.
WHAT THE JOURNEY LOOKED LIKE
The unexpected path inward
The work became extensive.
It wasn't one thing that changed everything. It was years of looking honestly at myself and questioning things I'd always assumed were true.
There was therapy and healing. Meditation and breathwork. Looking at beliefs I'd carried for years and beginning to see how much they had shaped the way I thought, behaved and experienced my life.
I started to recognise the patterns I'd mistaken for personality. The need to prove myself. The need to get things right. The need to be in control. The fear underneath so much of what I did.
And slowly, the sense of who I thought I had to be began to loosen.
This wasn't about becoming someone different. It was about seeing through what wasn't really me. The more clearly I saw my Ego, the less power those old patterns had over me.
And eventually, something much simpler began to emerge underneath all of it. A version of me that was already enough.
WHAT SHIFTED
A life no longer defined
by who I thought I should be
Years of that work dissolved something fundamental.
I stopped living from the set of rules, beliefs, and expectations that culture, upbringing, and worldly influences had layered onto me. Rules that never aligned with my true nature to begin with.
What emerged was a completely different experience of being alive. A deeper sense of purpose and meaning.
Contentment that doesn't depend on what I achieve or how others perceive me. Relationships that feel real. Joy in the ordinary, not only in the milestones.
This is what living beyond your ego actually looks like.
There's more to me than this inner work
While my personal work is pivotal to guiding you towards your own truth, I'm also a regular person living a regular life.
I am a husband to an amazing wife, father and grandfather to incredible children. I'm a son, a sibling, a nephew and an in-law to an amazing family (including two French Bulldogs). I'm so very grateful to be surrounded by so many who love me deeply.
I love travel, experiencing different people from different cultures and the different vibe in various places (Africa and London). I love that feeling when things just click in life, whether people or situations. I believe in a greater source of our existence and that deep down, it's our purpose in life to connect with it.
I love watching the NRL (Broncos are my team), the Premier League (Liverpool), getting out on a bike or maybe in a fast car here and there! I'm also a lover of nature, especially the beach. I find it grounds and resets me. I've always been partial to good food (thankfully I have a great metabolism) and I believe my alternative job in this life was to be a drummer - I'm terrible at it but what an amazing experience playing in front of thousands of people, the energy would be awesome.
There's plenty more to me of course but I hope that provides some insight